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Be Careful What You Say

Proverbs 21:23 “He who guards his…tongue keeps himself from calamity.”

If you don’t want people to remember something, don’t talk about it.

If you don’t want to hear about it later, don’t sow the seeds of it into their minds.

Arguments would cease and stress decrease if only we had the wisdom to know when to be quiet.

In order to know what to say, when to say it, and who to say it to, try to be guided by these Scriptures:

  1. “The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts” (Proverbs 18:8).
  2. “A wholesome tongue is a tree of life” (Proverbs 15:4).
  3. “He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity.”

Be careful about confessing your mistakes to others. You may be sincere, but when you’re hurting, vulnerable and in need of support, you can raise issues that live longer than the explanations you give.

You can’t stop people from shooting at you, but you don’t have to give them ammunition.

Certainly there are times when public disclosure is right and wise. Jesus said when someone sins against you, you should do these three things: First go to them privately. If that doesn’t work, take two or three mature people with you. If that doesn’t work, bring it to the church leadership (See Mt 18:15-17). If you have sinned, ask God to forgive you and He will. Then focus on the future and put everything else into God’s hands.

If He can deliver you, He can also defend you. If He doesn’t choose to do either, He will use it to develop you.


– from a daily meditation


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2 thoughts on “Be Careful What You Say

  1. Wise Words~countless times my tongue has gotten me in trouble when all I had to do is Be Quiet!

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